People outside your relationship
and family may gossip or ask
about the affair. Remember, it's
not their business. It is something
that concerns you and your
mate. Don't care about what
others say.
If you were unfaithful:
You made a bad decision, so
accept the responsibility.
Understand that your mate
needs time, so give that to him
or her. Don't try to justify your
past behavior,; no excuse can
change the past. If you still have
contact with the 'other person',
sever the relationship. You will
never solve the problem,
otherwise.
If your mate cheated:
First of all, do you think that you
can forgive your mate? If the
answer is no, then you may need
to examine whether the
relationship can work again.
Never invest more into a
relationship than you can afford
to lose. If you can't afford to be
rejected or put down again, then
you need to tell your mate. Be
honest with your partner and
explain your needs.
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